Setting Your Student up for Success
Updated: Dec 10, 2022
Welcome! For all of our new families, “Welcome to the Harmony Arts Family!” and for all of our returning families, “Welcome back!”
The beginning of a new school year is always exciting! The season is changing and we all feel ready to get back into a good routine with high expectations of a successful year. The following is an edited article I posted last fall, but I feel like it is a really good reminder of not only things that will set your home, space, and time up for success, but more importantly, your perspective. So, as you begin this new year at Harmony Arts and Music Academy, here are five tips to set you and your child up for success!
Look at the Long Range Goal
First of all, take a moment to reflect on why you want your child to take music lessons. We like our children to be well rounded, and music does so much for brain development, but beyond that, are there any other desires you and your child have? Is it a dream to have a family of musicians? Do you want your child to be able to add beauty to the world and serve in your community? Or is it just for the fun of being able to play music. Chances are, we don’t really plan on our children performing professionally for large public audiences. Maybe take a minute to ask and find out what your child’s desires are and keep this in mind as you set your expectations for this year. If learning and practicing are consistently a miserable experience, it is likely that either your child will want to quit, or you will want your child to quit to save the relationship; and either way the beautiful dreams and desires you and your child have now, will sadly be lost.
So, as you enter the ride of “music lessons”, remember, especially when your child isn't learning as quickly as you expected, that all children learn differently and it's not a race or contest to be like another child in class, but rather a journey with a perfect destination for your child. The path from point A to point B for some is very streamlined, straight, and quick. For others, the path is a calm, winding road that is slower and more scenic. We're here to help your child take the next best step on that personal journey and you can trust that your child will be able to learn the musical skills necessary to achieve those personal dreams. Take on the role of a supporting cheerleader, loving and enjoying the musical journey your child is on.
Set up routines
Setting up routines and expectations at the
beginning helps everyone know the plan. Discuss with your child and determine what will work best for everyone involved. Some children are early risers, some are more alert in the evening, and some work better with a short practice session in the morning, and a second one after school. Is the expectation to practice every day, or just weekdays? Does practice mean playing each assignment a certain number of times? Or does it mean setting the timer for a certain number of minutes? Try out the plan and adjust as
Set up the Practice Space
Having things in order makes things work better, so set up the practice space. Make sure there is an audio device handy to play the card games. Keep the bag with all supplies at the piano or in a designated location. Having the instruments in a quieter room or setting rules that keep the music room quiet during practice times allows the child to be able to hear and focus better.
What is the best level of involvement for you?
It can be helpful to your child if you practice with them, at least at the beginning of the year while they are learning how to practice. You can even just practice with your child the first couple days when it’s the trickiest and can be the most frustrating. Remember, practicing does not always mean to do everything every day. Some days, it’s okay to just work on one tricky part of the assignment.
Find joy in the journey of your child’s musical education.
And finally, stay positive about your child's abilities and what is being learned. Stay calm when the ride gets rocky, and remind them that they’ve got this! They can do it! Always, celebrate the successes. And look for solutions that will keep the challenging experiences positive. Reach out to the teachers at the studio. We are here to help you and your child, and we know lots of tricks! Here at Harmony Arts, we love music! And we love sharing that love with your child and your family. We are excited for the journey of this coming year, Welcome aboard!